If he’s not your biggest supporter, then he’s not the right man for you!
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Apologies to Thomas Wheeler, who coined the famous phrase: “Behind every successful man stands a strong woman.” In modern times, women are worthy competitors to men, and they shine brightest when loved by the right person. Love inspires and brings out the best opportunities for fulfillment. For example, David Beckham proudly wears T-shirts with his wife Victoria’s face on them, or Jay-Z, who writes hits for Beyoncé. Both of them continue to attract followers and ride the wave of success.
What’s the use of a man who doesn’t wake up with the thought of making you happy? Your chosen partner should be someone you can lean on in difficult times, someone who sees you as the most amazing person in the world. They shouldn’t be ashamed to wait for you outside the dressing room in a mall or to cook for you after a hard day at work. They shouldn’t treat you like a servant at home, expecting you to take care of everything and always agree with them. If all of this sounds like a fantasy, then you simply haven’t found the right person yet.
But you have the power to change the game!
There are two options: change the dynamics in your current relationship or wait for your soulmate to come along.
The starting point towards change is to believe in yourself. You are unique and special just the way you are. Embrace your freckles, don’t hide them with makeup. If you struggle with curly hair, stop trying to straighten it. Be natural. Every man is attracted to different types of women, so let your true self shine through. If you try to hide your unique qualities, how can you expect your man to notice and appreciate you?
Then is time to let go of the past. Leave your previous relationships behind and only take the lessons you’ve learned from them. Dwelling on the past will only hinder your happiness. Remember that your past experiences have made you wiser and more deserving of love.
The third level of transformation involves letting go of control. Give your partner a chance to be the one who makes decisions in the relationship. When he feels empowered, he will be more fulfilled and ready to give back. However, this doesn’t mean you should agree with everything he says. It’s important to maintain your individuality. The more space there is between you, the more he will strive to get closer to you. So, give your love and time in small portions. Unconditional devotion can lead to burdens and loss of interest. He should fear losing you but also have confidence that you will support him in difficult moments. Balance is crucial, and without it, the relationship can develop in the wrong direction.
The next phase is to become his best friend. Male friendships are often surrounded by legends and myths. Many men consider friendship to be the most important thing and are willing to go to great lengths to help someone they care about. These relationships are built on honesty, loyalty, and respect. When you are sincere, open, and speak your mind without twisting the truth or lying, and when you show him respect, his guard will come down, and he will accept you in his heart. You become his friend and automatically earn his trust.
I’ll share the remaining secrets to fully build a loving relationship in the 5-day program “From the backup plan to “The Only One“ The power is in your hands, and I’ll provide you with the key to open the door to the relationship of your dreams.