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During our vacation, there was a girl in our group who didn’t wear makeup, spoke softly, and helped with her friend’s children all the time. It seemed like magic because men kept appearing and treating her or giving her gifts. I noticed this and asked her, “Do men often give you gifts?”
She blushed and said, “Yes, all the time. And not just from men, even this vacation was a gift from a friend. But isn’t that normal? Don’t they give gifts to everyone?” I laughed and said, “No, that’s not true!” We talked about why some women don’t receive gifts from men.
Motherly women: These are women who know everything and constantly give advice on how men should live. Even if a man gives them something, they’re often unsatisfied and might say, “Why did you spend money on this?” or “I don’t need this at all. Where will I put it?” If you see yourself in this, it’s time for a change.
Victim women: Men like tender and vulnerable women, but not those who always complain, express discontent, and talk about how unhappy they are. Such women may not receive gifts and might even face aggression and anger from men.
Friend women: Some women behave like platonic friends with men. They dress like men and talk about other women with them. If you act like one of the guys, it’s hard to expect gifts from them. You should embrace your feminine energy.
Women with low self-esteem: Some women undervalue themselves and feel uncomfortable receiving gifts from their partners. They may feel obligated to return the gesture even for a simple coffee. It’s essential for these women to work on their self-esteem.
Non-sexual women: Sex is important in a relationship. If a man doesn’t receive quality intimacy, he might not be inclined to give gifts. However, if a man falls in love and sees that his partner genuinely enjoys his company and intimacy, he may be more willing to give her gifts.
Bonus for women who receive gifts: Women who have high feminine self-esteem know their worth. They can express their desires sincerely and accept gifts easily. In some cases, women have difficulties receiving gifts due to deep-rooted issues that can harm relationships. It’s crucial to address these problems early.
Practice: Sit comfortably, close your eyes, and imagine the gifts you want to receive from the Universe and your partner. Wish for them with all your heart and feel open to receiving them. Tell yourself, “Yes, I deserve it. I am valuable and important as a woman.” Visualize yourself receiving the gifts with love and gratitude.
Are you willing to adjust your attitude and open yourself up to receiving plenty of gifts? If so, I invite you to my new online course New! How to Receive Gifts, Love, and Attention from Men?
With love,
Natalia Kobylkina
