QUIZ: Are You Attracting Situationships?

3  2 min

Answer honestly and find out if you’re unconsciously settling for unclear, uncommitted relationships.

How to answer:
Rate each statement from:

• 0 – Never
• 1 – Sometimes
• 2 – Often
• 3 – Almost always

📝 QUESTIONS:

1. I want a relationship so badly that I’m willing to overlook a lot just to not be alone.
2. I believe I don’t have many chances, so I hold on tight to whoever shows up.
3. I ignore red flags because I believe “this time it will be different.”
4. I think if I’m good enough, he’ll eventually want a serious relationship.
5. Deep down, I don’t feel worthy of real love.
6. I don’t have strong support from my family or friends.
7. I feel financially unstable or dependent.
8. I’m afraid to ask direct questions in case I scare him away.
9. Being alone is very difficult for me.
10. I secretly hope someone will come and “save” me from my life.
11. I try to earn love rather than simply receiving it.
12. Men in my life often take advantage of my kindness.
13. I often find myself in undefined relationships with no clear status.
14. I settle for less than I truly want just to avoid being alone.
15. I dream of love, but deep down I feel like it’s not for me.

0–10 points

✅ You are confident and have strong personal boundaries. Situationships are not your pattern.
You are likely either in a happy relationship or satisfied with the kind of relationships you attract. Things work easily for you in love, and you know exactly how to express your needs and get what you want.

11–25 points

⚠️ Sometimes you compromise yourself just to avoid being alone. There’s a real risk of falling into an unclear or one-sided relationship.
Why do you neglect your own needs and fear so much to be alone?

26–35 points

🚨 You live in fear of loneliness and often settle for less. You need to work on building deep self-worth.
It’s important to start healing your inner child and developing your inner parent — and to grow into a worthy, mature woman.

36–45 points

❗ You are the ideal “target” for a situationship. You don’t believe in yourself, and men can sense it.
It’s time to choose yourself! It’s time to rise above your patterns and become a High-Vibration Woman — one who attracts love from a place of power, not fear.