[vc_row el_class=”page-row”][vc_column][vc_column_text]I have a boyfriend but sometimes, when we have sex I fantasize about my ex. Is this normal? Should I tell this to my boyfriend? Does this mean I want to cheat on him?
Yes, we sometimes fantasize about other people. Besides, I notice that when one of the partners is attract by another person (colleague, friend), usually having sex with the actual partner becomes even hotter. And often we don’t really do the actual cheating.
But you should, however, tell this to your current boyfriend, there is no point to upset him. After this every time he will wonder whether you have sex with him or with your ex. Meaning, if we think about other person in bed, let’s not try to relief ourselves of feeling guilty dragging the partner in.
So you can be close to your partner:
1. Look him in the eyes while having sex.
2. Breath in sync – this gives closeness.
3. Think of a sexual fantasy related to both of you and tell him. For example: now I imagine strangers looking at us and this arouses me.
4. Find words that will be addressed to this person only. Say it aloud. For example: I really like your big dick penetrating my cave.
These things give an opportunity to tune for our partner and not to leave space for our exes.