I am 45 years old and I had sex 3 times

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I am 45 years old and I had sex 3 times

[vc_row el_class=”page-row”][vc_column][vc_column_text]Hello, Natalia! I am 45 years of age and I had sex only 3 times so far, last time was 14 years ago. And I really want a serious relationship.

There are two major problems with sex – we are rarely satisfied by quality and/or quantity. Men sometimes are scared to directly tell the woman they want sex just so she doesn’t reject them or because maybe they will not meet her expectations. The woman, however, is afraid of saying “yes” so they don’t think she is easy and maybe leave her at the end.

How to fight our fears:
Say aloud: I am sexual and I want to have sex. My body deserves pleasure. Note what the voices in your head be by then. Often this is the voice of parents or close ones who have given you limited vision about sex. Or the voices of your ex-sexual partners. Tell them this is their life and that yours is different. Undertake specific measures that lead to sex. Prepare your body and home. Put wine in the fridge. Go “hunting” and remember that the man/woman opposite to you also wants sex. If you are a man, directly offer. Invite her in your house. Some wine, joking, and when you feel she is ready – act. Even if she says “no” this is the Little Red Riding Hood game so you don’t think she is easy. I would recommend you to start having a lot of sex without sticking to one partner. And when you feel confident as a man, look for a serious relationship.