He wants bondage and i don’t

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He wants bondage and i don’t

[vc_row el_class=”page-row”][vc_column][vc_column_text]Hello, Natalia! My boyfriend insists for me to bond him. I think this is ridiculous. It’s just not the kind of person I am and he gets offended. What should I do?
Nora

It is clear that sometimes our fantasies are completely different from those of our partners. And that’s normal. On the other hand, to know whether we like a fruit or not, we have to try it. Sometimes interesting surprises occur. So use the opportunity to experiment with your own sexuality. I think you’re looking at things too seriously.

Try to really play the mistress. Take it as a role, don’t be so literal. Dress up to show your dominance. High heels, bright lipstick, pony tail hair, short skirt. Take something you can gently slap your partner with. Set your own rules. For example, the stop rule (for both parties). Find out if there is something that you and your partner definitely do not want to do – this is called setting boundaries. Relax and get into the game. It can be very fun and useful for yourself. Many women find it difficult to say exactly what they want in sex, they are anxious to ask for their hidden desire to be fulfilled, but this is where you can give yourself all the freedom. Allow yourself to overcome your insecurities, get rid of the feeling of shame and guilt. Use this opportunity 100%! And you are very likely to like it.

Respectfully,

Natalia[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]