He stimulates them and they are “silent”

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He stimulates them and they are “silent”

[vc_row el_class=”page-row”][vc_column][vc_column_text]Hello, Natalia! I was reading something very interesting and I would like you to comment on it. During sexual excitement female breasts increase by 25% and became several times more sensitive. They did a study on women and almost half admitted they could only have orgasm through breast stimulation. The reason was that the brain was receiving signals similar to those during sex. However, this does not work for me. I feel nothing even when my boyfriend strokes my breasts or sucks my nipples. Why?

A woman may have a much stronger sexual excitement and orgasm if the partner stimulates her nipples during the time of penetration. At the time of orgasm in women, the level of the hormone prolactin increases. It is a lactogenic hormone responsible for milk production. It’s also called the proximity hormone. Therefore, if a man stimulates his partner’s nipples during sex, he helps to produce this hormone. The woman feels more close to her partner, indulges him with her whole body, and thus can have a much stronger orgasm.

Therefore, I recommend men pay special attention to women’s nipples during sex. But! Ask your partners how they prefer to act. There are women who prefer a very gentle touch, others want a strong squeeze even in mild pain. For others, it is important only to have contact with the nipples and slight pinching from time to time. Talk and watch the reaction of your touch.

Ava, in cases like yours, when touching your breasts does not cause excitement, you should think about whether you have a fear of intimacy, of being dependent on the man for yourself. Consider whether this man excites you at all. Like I said before, listen to your body. It may tell you that he is not the right partner for you. However, if you are keen on this man, I advise you not to give up this stimulation. Ask him or her to try at least 5 different ways to act on your breasts and together look for how to activate them. This will make your orgasm much easier, intense and strong.