[vc_row el_class=”page-row”][vc_column][vc_column_text]The person I love and I were together for a year three months. After many fights we separated. About a month after our separation he started seeing another girl. He calls me, however, shares with me. He tells me he still loves me but at the same time loves her too. Should I fight for him or should we just stay friends?
Since in a relationship there is so much aggression and the partner, even after you broke up, still emotionally harasses you, this is an indicator that you don’t have clear boundaries and you don’t respect yourself. Even if you change partners, you will have the same problems with the other person. What do our boundaries and respect for ourselves depend on? Our father! If you had bad relations with your father, if he hurt your mother physically or mentally, then you have lost respect towards men altogether. They reply with the same and it’s a vicious circle. How to get out of it.
1. Imagine your mother is in front of you and say: mama, I have a right to love men.
2. Imagine your father is in front of you and say: I respect you.
The truth is this should be done with a therapist but at least you will know how to develop self-respect towards yourself. I wish you good luck!